Filipina Divorced

Filipina Divorced

TO: Singles, Wives, Husbands, Single Parents, Widows/Widowers, Studes, and/or people of various backgrounds – Let us know your thoughts about this subject “Divorce, Legal Separation and Annulment”.

Be it about its causes or its effects, personal experiences to opinions, from studies/analysis to news…

When all else is irreconcilable, should you stay or should you leave?

Divorce, Legal Separation, Annulment: WHAT IS YOUR STAND?

In my own opinion, It’s not healthy to stay in a marriage that is no longer working no matter how much you try to work things out and compromise on issues if the love is no longer there, nothing is going to work. It takes two to make things work and love is a two-way street.

If only one person does the giving and the other all the taking, it’s not fair sooner or later it will have repercussions, such as one might find someone else or having an affair. There is no perfect life all around but at least you can make yours happy and we all deserve to be happy. You only have one life to live, choose the happy route.

As far as the children, they are very resilient it’s much healthier for them to be in a household where they are not exposed to abuses, bickering and fights between the two most important persons in their lives – the parent that is.

If there are kids in the middle and you are married and contemplating on separating or divorcing, things can be worked out but both parents need to take equal responsibility with their children even if both are no longer together.

However, for those people who haven’t reached this stage yet, please know your partner well before getting married because marriage is a serious task and it might be exciting (at first) but the fact that you’ll be spending the rest of your lifetime with someone, might as well give it some thought.

Take note that even some siblings can’t seem to stand each others’ mere presence, how much more to some person of no blood-relation to you. We must take into consideration the flaws, weaknesses, bad traits or habits of the other half. Think if you are willing to accept and tolerate those before its too late and see yourself in court rooms petitioning for Legal Separation or Annulment.

How about you? Would you stay or should you leave when everything else is irreconcilable?